Reader Collaboration: Explore the First Chapters of “The Perfect Servant”

Hello, my confident queens and eager readers,

As you may know, I’ve been working on something tantalising: a story that explores the intricate dance of power and submission in a way that only we can appreciate. Today, I am thrilled to share a sneak peek into my upcoming book, “The Perfect Servant”. Continue reading “Reader Collaboration: Explore the First Chapters of “The Perfect Servant””

Five Steps to Sparking Obedience with a Shock Collar

Ah, the shock collar—a device that has intrigued and thrilled many a Dominant. For those new to the concept, a shock collar is typically a band worn around the neck, though it can be adapted to other parts of the body, like the wrists, chastity device or ankles. Its purpose? To deliver a controlled electric pulse, serving as a prompt for behaviour correction and obedience training. Continue reading “Five Steps to Sparking Obedience with a Shock Collar”

Unlocking Extra Time: How a Well-Trained Houseboy Can Save You 24 Hours a Week

Save 24 Hours a Week with a Well-Trained Houseboy

Let’s dive into the luxurious world of having a houseboy at your beck and call. Imagine the endless possibilities of leisure and indulgence as he takes on those mundane tasks that consume your precious time. Here’s a tantalising list of tasks he can perform to make your life a breeze: Continue reading “Unlocking Extra Time: How a Well-Trained Houseboy Can Save You 24 Hours a Week”

Female-Led Bliss: What do men seek from a FLR?

Part 3 of 3 – Survey of submissive men

Alright, my empowered Dominant ladies, let’s take a delicious dive into how these fine gentlemen envision their ideal Female-Led Relationship (FLR). These survey responses are a treasure trove of fantasies, desires, and commitments that paint a vivid picture of the devotion they are eager to offer. Let’s break it down and see what it means for you as you explore or deepen your FLR dynamics. Continue reading “Female-Led Bliss: What do men seek from a FLR?”

How men wish to show devotion in a Female-led relationship

Part 2 of 3 – Survey of submissive men 

Devotion – How men wish to express it

Ladies, gather around for an enlightening analysis that reveals how men express their commitment, support, and devotion in the captivating dynamic of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). This survey, conducted exclusively with male respondents, offers invaluable insights into the methods they use—or would use—to show their unwavering loyalty and adoration for their Dominant partners. Let’s dive into these intriguing results and see how they align with the desires of a Dominant woman exploring FLR. Continue reading “How men wish to show devotion in a Female-led relationship”

Confident Queens: Survey Reveals What Submissive Men Crave Most in Dominant Women

Part 1 of 3 – Survey of submissive men

Ah, my powerful Dominant queens, let’s unveil the tantalising truths from a survey in which men laid bare the qualities they find most irresistible in a Dominant Female. This insight is pure gold for those of you exploring the thrilling world of Female-Led Relationships (FLR). Here’s what sets their hearts racing and compels them to submit willingly to your command. Continue reading “Confident Queens: Survey Reveals What Submissive Men Crave Most in Dominant Women”

Navigating Early Hurdles in a Female-Led Relationship

A reader writes:

“My husband introduced me to the idea of a FLR; I was hesitant at first, but the more I read about it, the more excited I got. However, he seems to have gone off the boil and forgets about his submissive duties – even though it was his idea in the first place! What’s going on? Was it just a fantasy, and he can’t handle reality?”

Ah, my dear, welcome to the tantalising tightrope of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)! You’ve stepped into a role that promises both excitement and challenges, and it seems like you’re experiencing a bit of both. Let’s unwrap this conundrum together, shall we? Continue reading “Navigating Early Hurdles in a Female-Led Relationship”

Survey for submissive men – Share your insights and dreams

I welcome the submissive men in the audience to share their insights and dreams. Like previous surveys , this is your chance to lend your voice to the chorus that sings the praises of Female Leadership, a journey to map the terrains of empowerment and devotion where men like you play an indispensable role.

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Language for New Female Dominants

A reader writes:

“Can you address some good language for a Domme to use, that will remind her submissive of his place in the relationship?”

Darling, I’m thrilled to delve into the delicious art of language that puts your submissive right where he belongs—under your confident, commanding thumb. Here are a few delightful phrases to keep him perpetually aware of his place:

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Overcoming Guilt in a FLR

A letter from a reader:

“Dear Cat, my husband and I are exploring a Female-led dynamic. I’m having issues with the new balance of power; my husband will be busy doing housework and generally being at my beck and call, and I feel guilty about relaxing. In contrast, my husband seems to enjoy working whilst I chill on the sofa. How do overcome my guilt and relax into the role of Queen?”

Overcoming Guilt in a FLR

Darling Reader,

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