Female-Led by Cat Boulder

In September I launched the male chastity survey, 219 answered, this article shares the results and what I make of it. The short version: three in four say chastity has been good for the relationship. The long version is more interesting, because it tells you exactly when it is good, and when it is a…

Day nineteen. He knows it is day nineteen. He knew it when he woke, locked and aching. He knew it while he ironed your blouse, and he will know it, with the precision of a Swiss railway, at twenty to midnight when it becomes day twenty. He also knows exactly where the key is. He…

Stacey and PJ spent years appearing to have a conventional marriage. Beneath the performance, the truth was already perfectly clear: she led, he served, and life worked better when they stopped pretending otherwise. Some women slowly discover they are dominant. Stacey tried submitting, watched her husband make a perfectly respectable attempt at taking charge in…

It is Friday night. You are in the good chair with a gin, the lamp turned low and your shoes abandoned somewhere across the room. He is kneeling at your feet, forehead lowered, exactly where you told him to be. The house is quiet. His attention is yours. The evening has finally learned its place.…

The lock gets all the attention. The more interesting question is what happens to the relationship around it? In 2024, I asked readers about their experiences of male chastity. The results were revealing. Chastity was commonly practised within female-led relationships, increased service and obedience was the most frequently reported benefit, and physical discomfort was the…

The women who came before you got to burn something down. The vote, the bank account, the marriage bar, each generation took its turn with the matches, and thank goodness they did. But here is the delicious thing about your turn, darling: the demolition is finished. Your inheritance is a cleared site and a man…