In a previous article, we discussed how a woman in a female-led relationship could dominate her husband’s social life; in this article, we will look at his spare time and how to dominate it for the benefit of the couple.
Dominating your husband’s spare time is a great way to set the relationship on the right track and strengthen the bond.
Well, darlings, for those radiant women who stand tall and unapologetic in their supremacy, here’s how you artfully control every precious second of your man’s time within a Female-Led Relationship. Buckle up!
The benefits of managing his time
In a consensual female-led relationship (FLR) where the woman takes a dominant role over a man’s spare time, there can be several benefits for the woman. It’s crucial to understand that these benefits arise from a place of mutual understanding, trust, and desire for this dynamic from both partners:
- Fulfilment of Personal Desires: A woman might derive personal satisfaction and pleasure from taking a dominant role. This could be a source of empowerment, fulfilling a personal kink, or simply enjoying the dynamic of control.
- Enhanced Intimacy: Dominating a man’s spare time can create an intensified sense of intimacy between the couple. The man’s surrender and vulnerability can be profoundly bonding, building trust and intimacy.
- Efficient Time Management: By controlling his spare time, the woman can ensure that time is allocated effectively for mutual activities, bonding, and chores. This can help create a balanced life where partners share responsibilities and leisure moments.
- Minimised Distractions: If she feels certain hobbies or friends are taking too much of his attention or are not conducive to their relationship, dominating his free time allows her to steer him towards more constructive or mutually beneficial activities.
- Shared Goals and Growth: Directing his spare time towards shared goals (like fitness, learning a new skill, or building something together) ensures that both partners grow together and strengthen their bond.
- Cultivation of Desired Qualities: If the woman wishes to encourage or cultivate certain habits or qualities in the man, having a say in how he spends his spare time can be beneficial. For example, if she believes he would benefit from reading more, she might suggest or direct him to spend some of his free time with books.
- Strengthening the FLR Dynamic: Dominating his spare time can reinforce the dynamics of their relationship, constantly reminding both of the roles they’ve chosen and keeping the relationship aligned with its core principles.
- Peace of Mind: Knowing where and how he’s spending his free time can offer a sense of security and peace of mind, especially if there are concerns about outside influences or distractions.
- Increased Appreciation and Gratitude: When a man willingly submits his free time, it can lead to heightened appreciation and gratitude towards the woman for her guidance and direction.
- Enhanced Communication: The need to discuss, negotiate, and communicate about time spent ensures regular check-ins and conversations, leading to a relationship where communication channels remain open and active.
Dominating your husband’s spare time – How to make use of his time
When directing his spare time, there are three main areas women tend to focus their husband’s time in a FLR:
- Being useful – He uses his spare time for housework, chores and errands. By taking the strain of more chores, it can alleviate the workload and stress on the dominant partner, allowing her to focus on other tasks or simply relax. This also gives your husband a sense of direction and purpose, obeying you and completing tasks assigned to him.
- Serving his Goddess – He uses his spare time to worship, pamper and otherwise spend quality time with you. A goddess deserves worship. Ensure you’ve allocated enough time in his busy schedule to bask in your glory.
- Becoming the best version of himself: He uses his spare time to improve himself or the relationship. You could enrol him in fitness classes, cooking classes, work on boosting his mental health and emotional well-being, expose him to more culture, improve his diet and nutrition, instruct him to volunteer in the community; the opportunities are endless under your guidance.
Dominating your husband’s spare time -Techniques for managing his time
Managing his every move would be exhausting; here are some techniques to simplify delegation and keep him on his toes. The goal is a productive and obedient husband with minimal effort on your part:
- Structured Scheduling: Because spontaneity is overrated and, let’s be honest, men are so much more productive when they’re given a roadmap. Draft him a daily guide—spoon-feed him his day, if you will.
- Task Lists: Some say lists are for shopping. We say lists are to keep him busy and ever-aware of his purpose. Keep him on his toes with a delightful mix of chores and challenges.
- Digital Calendars: Embrace the modern age and schedule his life with the tap of a finger. Alert him with electronic reminders. Ah, technology – making female domination efficient!
- Check-ins: There’s no joy like watching a man report his progress. Plus, those adorable moments when he stumbles over his words? Priceless!
- Time Tracking: Time flies when you’re having fun, but not on your watch. Use time-tracking apps to ensure he’s not dilly-dallying. Efficiency is the game!
- Rewards and Consequences: A little incentive never hurts. Dangle the carrot and, occasionally, brandish the stick. It’s all in the name of motivation.
- Limit Distractions: The world is a shiny place, especially for men. It’s best to keep his eyes on the prize (that’s you, by the way) and away from the endless abyss of internet cat videos.
- Quality Time Together: Feedback Sessions: Hold court and let him voice his ‘opinions’. While the decisions are ultimately yours, it’s entertaining to watch him try.
In the following article, I’ll describe the practical steps to take control, manage your emotions whilst he is busy serving you, and what to do with YOUR spare time once he is taking the strain.