Chastity Survey Results: Whilst men fantasise about chastity, women enjoy the reality

Increased willingness to serve and more obedient

Ladies, gather around because I’ve got some juicy intel that’ll have you raising your eyebrows in intrigue and maybe, just maybe, a sly smile of recognition. We’re diving into the sassy, sometimes hush-hush world of male chastity within Female-Led Relationships (FLRs), and the latest survey results are in. Prepare to be enlightened, empowered, and maybe a bit wickedly amused.

1. Marital Bliss with a Twist

male chastity survey results: Marital status
male chastity survey results: Marital status

Over half of our brave chastity practitioners are married, with a spicy 20% adding some zing to their relationships. It seems that adding a little lock and key to the bedroom doesn’t just keep things interesting; it redefines partnership dynamics in the most deliciously deviant way.

2. Novices and Veterans Alike

experience with Female-led relationships
experience with Female-led relationships

Our community is beautifully mixed, with 38.1% of chastity enthusiasts considering themselves old hands, while 36.8% are just dipping their toes (or should I say other parts) into these thrilling waters. Whether you’re a seasoned player or a curious newcomer, there’s room for all in this tantalising game.

3. Chastity in FLRs: A Blooming Trend

How many use male-chastity in a FLR
How many use male-chastity in a FLR

A resounding 72% have embraced chastity within their FLRs. Why? Because nothing says ‘I’m in charge’ like holding the key to his, ahem, virtues. It’s about power, control, and a delicious exchange of trust.

4. First Impressions: Excitement and Intrigue

First impressions of male chastity
First impressions of male chastity

It starts with a spark. For men, it’s often a titillating fantasy, but for us women? We’re intrigued by the reality. We’re not just dreamers; we’re doers. And when we do, we do it with style and conviction.

5. Reality Check: Women Love It More

More interest in male chastity from women
More interest in male chastity from women

Here’s the kicker: women’s interest in male chastity isn’t just lukewarm; it’s sizzling hot. While men fantasise, we actualise. It turns out we’re more likely to be ‘very’ or ‘extremely’ interested in the reality of male chastity. Why? Because we relish the control and the deepening bond it brings.

6. Strengthening the FLR Bond

male chastity - a tool to strengthen FLRs
male chastity – a tool to strengthen FLRs

When it comes to tightening the FLR bond, more women agree that male chastity is like relationship superglue. It’s not just about the physical aspect; it’s about deepening trust, enhancing communication, and, yes, revelling in a bit of playful dominance.

7. The Top Benefit: Service and Obedience

Increased willingness to serve and more obedient
Increased willingness to serve and more obedient

Dominant women take note: the number one benefit of male chastity is an increased willingness to serve and heightened obedience. It’s about reshaping the relationship landscape, where his focus shifts to your needs, desires, and whims.

8. The Challenge: Comfort is Key

Physical discomfort in male chastity is the biggest challenge
Physical discomfort in male chastity is the biggest challenge

Now, let’s not gloss over the hurdles. The biggest challenge with chastity devices? Physical discomfort. But fret not, my daring dominants; with a little patience and a lot of communication, finding the perfect fit is part of the journey.

So there you have it, ladies. Whether you’re a seasoned mistress of chastity or just starting to explore the possibilities, these insights show that male chastity in FLRs isn’t just a fleeting trend; it’s a lifestyle choice that empowers, excites, and deeply connects. And remember, whether you’re locking it up or holding the key, it’s all about mutual respect, consent, and a healthy dose of fun. Keep it sassy, keep it consensual, and above all, keep exploring.

Thank you to everyone who took part. If you have an opinion or story to share, why not contact me to share it with our community?

Author: Cat Boulder

Meet Cat Boulder: a sassy blogger unapologetically championing Female Supremacy with a cheeky grin and a sharp pen. She's not just preaching women's strength and leadership – she's a live wire sparking a gender-role rebellion. For Cat, women are more than leaders; they're queens to be served joyfully by men, weaving bonds of strength and sisterhood in every aspect of life. Through her zesty prose, she empowers women to own their dominance while guiding men to embrace humble servitude with gusto. Forget traditional norms – Cat's writing ignites a feisty journey towards a world where women reign supreme, and relationships bask in a harmonious matriarchy. Follow Cat on Tumblr, X or Instagram

2 thoughts on “Chastity Survey Results: Whilst men fantasise about chastity, women enjoy the reality”

  1. Dear Mrs. Boulder

    First of all, I should say that I really enjoy your blog and it has been an important source of information for my Wife and me in our process of developing a FLR.

    I found your survey very interesting, actually I participated in it. In my opinion, some of the results are very relevant, such as the amount of married couples practicing chastity, the impact of the chastity in the FLRs and the benefits of chastity within the FLR. However, respectfully I think there is a lot more information that you could have obtained from the survey.

    Humbly, I would suggest to complement this survey with additional questions, which I am sure could bring addional relevant information to whom are in a FLR. Some questions could address topics such as:

    • Type of chastity device (plastic, steel, honor system, other)
    • For how long has being practicing chastity in the FLR
    • Average time in chastity
    • Longest time in chastity
    • Type, method and frequency of orgasm or release received (full, ruined, PIV, hand job, etc).
    • Rituals regarding the chastity and releasing (cum eating, bonding, tease and denial, etc.)

    My recommendation is to use as many close questions as you can, so it could be easier to process the results. Open questions can bring you good stories, but it is difficult to convert them in data or useful information.

    I humbly hope my comments would be valuable for you.

    Best regards


  2. I believe that it is very important to promote male chastity and strive to stop this topic from being taboo. If men were locked in chastity and under the full control of women, the world would function better. Women should decide about aspects of men’s sexual lives, depending on the needs of each of them. There would be no betrayals, rapes, chauvinism and aggression. A man released only when a woman needs it is a perfect solution. It is also important for women to talk openly about male chastity and not hide from their friends or colleagues that their man is chaste. This would be a completely different dimension of interpersonal and male-female relationships – the common awareness that a married man is under his wife’s control also in this area. Moreover, openness on this topic would allow for the exchange of experiences between women and would be an interesting topic of social conversations not only among women but also in the presence of husbands. This would further build women’s authority, teach men humility and eliminate any manifestations of sexism. How wonderful the world would be if getting married was tantamount to fitting a chastity device to your husband.

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