“The Temple” Book is Published

Building a FLR Temple of Woman Worship

Darlings, my latest creation, “The Temple,” is finally here! It’s a sensuous guide to building a thrilling Female-Led Relationship (FLR) at its most exquisite.

Imagine a temple, with each layer symbolising a step deeper into our world, starting with the foundations of trust and consent, escalating through the thrilling realms of obedience and control, and culminating in the divine sanctum of female leadership. I’ve packed it with juicy advice, real-world scenarios, and provocative insights to guide you on this exhilarating journey.

Dive in, and let’s build a temple of female empowerment together! For more, sashay over to The Temple – Building a Roadmap towards an advanced FLR.

Building a FLR Temple of Woman Worship
Building a FLR Temple of Woman Worship

The key building blocks of a FLR Temple


  • Consent – Your male partner has willingly submitted to your authority in the relationship
  • Communications – You have built open channels for ongoing communications
  • Trust – From honesty and vulnerability – you have a loving relationship based on trust

The FLR Pillars:

  • Obedience – You have laid down the law and begun to develop an increasingly obedient partner
  • Discipline – Your partner understands there are consequences for disobedience to aid his development
  • Standards – Your needs and desires and enshrined in your partners day to day service
    so that you don’t need to repeat yourself and leadership is not onerous
  • Control – It is abundantly clear what elements of the relationship you control

The Pinnacle 

Once the foundation and pillars are built – we can focus on the Pinnacle of the FLR Temple. When the Female leader’s happiness, fulfilment, self-actualisation and relaxation thrive within the context of a deeply loving and closely connected loving relationship.

The exploration of Female-Led Relationships is not just about changing the dynamics of a partnership; it’s about embracing a journey of empowerment, respect, and profound emotional connection. May your journey be as enriching and fulfilling as the process of writing this book has been for me.

Learn more about the Temple Book and buy here: Temple Book

Author: Cat Boulder

Meet Cat Boulder: a sassy blogger unapologetically championing Female Supremacy with a cheeky grin and a sharp pen. She's not just preaching women's strength and leadership – she's a live wire sparking a gender-role rebellion. For Cat, women are more than leaders; they're queens to be served joyfully by men, weaving bonds of strength and sisterhood in every aspect of life. Through her zesty prose, she empowers women to own their dominance while guiding men to embrace humble servitude with gusto. Forget traditional norms – Cat's writing ignites a feisty journey towards a world where women reign supreme, and relationships bask in a harmonious matriarchy. Follow Cat on Tumblr, X or Instagram

7 thoughts on ““The Temple” Book is Published”

  1. Congratulations Madam. I am happy for you with this milestone of Female Supremacy and Women Empowerment. Allow me to buy and then….. bow down for you. Praise to the Feminine Divine

  2. Thank you, Mz. Boulder!

    The conceptual model of “The Temple” is fabulous, since it brings together all of the architectural elements that can and should go into a well designed and well constructed female led relationship. Your writing lets the reader appreciate the strength and resiliency that will result, producing a relationship that is more resilient and durable than could have been possible otherwise. At the same time, you explain and show the beauty that will grow and radiate between the female leader and her follower, blessing both of their lives, and inspiring others to ask “how did you do it?”

    This will make a wonderful gift to females who are interested in hearing more about FLR’s, so they can decide for themselves “is this for me?”, and if it is, then “what are the steps I need to take to make my relationship like this?”

    Thank you!

  3. Hi Cat Boulder,
    one technical question: in which format (epub, pdf, ?) can I buy your book?

    Backround of the question: I want to translate it, so I can better “catch” what do you want to say “between the lines”.

    Thank you!

  4. Ms. Boulder,

    This is an update to my previous comment, now that I’ve had the book for a few weeks.

    Almost daily, I am re-reading the section on Journaling Prompts which begins on page 47. While I am not keeping a written journal, nonetheless, the prompts are helping me think more deeply each day about how I am serving my Queen, how I can improve my service, and how she is benefiting from my service. I can tell how my mind and behaviors are becoming more subservient to her, and how she is becoming more dominant and assertive over me, just by regularly re-reading the prompting questions. Your book is helping me see that our FLR is deepening and evolving in positive ways.

    Thank you.

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