The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 2 – The Offer

by Cat Boulder

Read chapter 1 here.

The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 2 – The Offer

Sophia opened the door with a composed smile, her posture impeccable as she leaned against the door frame, her silk blouse draping elegantly over tailored trousers. The soft shimmer of the fabric and the subtle scent of her perfume created an aura of effortless sophistication. Alex stood on the threshold, wearing a crisp button-down shirt and a blazer, a clear effort to impress. However, his choice of sneakers slightly undercut the polished look. His gaze flitted nervously between her face and the ground, but he couldn’t help stealing a glance at her striking presence, feeling both intimidated and captivated. Sophia’s eyes flicked briefly to his shoes, a faint, amused smile touching her lips, though she said nothing. Continue reading “The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 2 – The Offer”

The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 1 – Grace Under Pressure

by Cat Boulder.

The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 1 – Grace Under Pressure

The café thrummed with energy, the hum of conversations and the hiss of the espresso machine weaving a rhythm that matched the pulse of the city outside. Yet, amidst the chaos, Sophia’s corner table remained an oasis of calm. She sat with perfect posture, her tailored blazer and soft waves framing her face with an effortless elegance that turned heads without trying. She watched the barista, Alex, as he deftly navigated a tense exchange with a difficult customer. His apology was warm but self-effacing, his tone steady, and his focus unshaken, even as the patron hurled complaints at him. Continue reading “The Flat Share Agreement: Chapter 1 – Grace Under Pressure”

Using Hypnosis in FLR: Rewiring His Mind for Devotion and Obedience

Let’s get one thing straight: influence is your divine right. But why settle for surface-level power when you could rewrite the script entirely? Hypnosis isn’t just for parlour tricks or stage shows; it’s a deeply intimate tool that, when used with care and consent, can reinforce your authority and guide him toward unshakable devotion. Let’s dive into this seductive realm of hypnotic power and explore how you can integrate it into your FLR to inspire behaviour, devotion, and obedience. Continue reading “Using Hypnosis in FLR: Rewiring His Mind for Devotion and Obedience”

Step Up and Serve: Dominant Women Reveal What Submissive Men Need to Know

This is part three of our survey of Dominant Women. See the original survey here, and part one and two. 

The Keys to Men Thriving in an FLR – Step up and serve

Let’s start with a round of applause for the brilliant Dominant women who generously shared their insights in this survey. Their collective wisdom forms a roadmap for submissive men eager to thrive in Female-Led Relationships (FLRs). Continue reading “Step Up and Serve: Dominant Women Reveal What Submissive Men Need to Know”

Obey, no need to overthink : Train Him to Serve Without Resistance

If you’re in a Level 3/4 Female-Led Relationship, I’m guessing you’re not here for the basics. You’re beyond simple requests or gentle coaxing—you want obedience that’s automatic, like a well-trained response to your voice, your presence, your power. And you deserve that. If your man is still overanalysing your commands, questioning your judgement, or (heaven forbid) hesitating, then it’s time to rewire his mind. Let’s get into how to train your man to obey without thinking, to respond instantly when you issue a command. Continue reading “Obey, no need to overthink : Train Him to Serve Without Resistance”

Survey Results: Dominant Women Want More Power—Here’s What They’re Craving

Ladies, it’s time to face the truth: we, as Dominant women, aren’t settling for the status quo. According to a recent survey on Female-Led Relationships (FLR), we want more power—much more. The numbers tell a revealing story about where we currently stand, and more importantly, where we want to go. Spoiler alert: the journey is all about claiming the deeper authority, devotion, and consistency we deserve from our submissive partners. Let’s dive into the findings and discuss how we can close that tantalising gap between desire and reality. Continue reading “Survey Results: Dominant Women Want More Power—Here’s What They’re Craving”

62% of Dominant Women Say Housework is Their Favourite Task to Delegate—Here’s Why It’s a Power Move in FLR

In our recent survey of Dominant Women we asked: “What element of everyday life do you enjoy delegating the most in an FLR?” The top result? housework! Continue reading “62% of Dominant Women Say Housework is Their Favourite Task to Delegate—Here’s Why It’s a Power Move in FLR”

Calling All Dominant Women: Share Your Insights in Our New Survey!

We’re excited to announce a follow-up to our recent survey on submissive men, which uncovered fascinating insights into their desires, motivations, and the dynamics of Female-Led Relationships (FLR). You can check out the results and key findings from that survey here, here and here. Continue reading “Calling All Dominant Women: Share Your Insights in Our New Survey!”

Stepping into your power and squashing imposter syndrome

Darling, let’s start by celebrating one powerful truth: you’re already leading. Whether you realise it or not, you’ve been at the helm of your marriage for 14 years. Finances and major decisions—those don’t just happen by accident. The strength and wisdom it takes to manage a household’s money? It’s not trivial. So, this idea of an “imposter syndrome” in your female-led relationship (FLR) is just a little voice in your head playing mind games. You’re no imposter, darling—you’re simply evolving. Continue reading “Stepping into your power and squashing imposter syndrome”

10 foundations of a well trained husband

In a Female-Led Relationship (FLR), you are the undeniable queen, and he exists to serve, support, and surrender. When he willingly offers himself to your control and leadership, the magic begins. You’re not here to compromise or co-lead; you’re here to reign supreme, with a man who finds joy in his position beneath you. A successful FLR is built on crystal-clear roles, complete devotion, and the unapologetic understanding that you are his purpose. If you’re ready to guide him into his place, here are the 10 foundations of a well trained husband —your blueprint for creating the perfectly docile gentleman. Continue reading “10 foundations of a well trained husband”