A reader writes:
“I’m in a FLR with my husband; we’re at about a level 3. I’ve been a bit of a sadist in my past; how do I introduce my sadistic side to my husband gradually?”
Ah, darling, the intoxicating allure of embracing one’s inner femme fatale!
But before you unleash that ravishingly wicked side, let’s approach this with the finesse it deserves. Exploring sadism is like introducing a new shade of lipstick – start subtle and work your way up!