Border Control
There is something deliciously revealing about a man with twenty-three days of pent-up energy and a pair of gardening gloves.
Our heroine has discovered a wonderfully practical truth: if a man needs direction, give him some. Preferably while you are reclining in the sunshine with a cold beer and your feet up.
He has borders to finish, weeds to conquer and dinner to start. She has supervision to provide. Everyone is contributing according to their strengths.
And when he admits, with admirable honesty, that he is not coping especially well with the current arrangement, does she panic? Of course not. A confident woman does not mistake male frustration for an emergency. She considers the evidence, enjoys the compliment and calmly decides whether a little longer might be good for him.
That is the heart of a Level Three or Four Female-Led Relationship: not cruelty, not games for the sake of games, but consensual authority with a mischievous edge. He knows she is in charge. She knows he likes knowing it. And both of them understand that surrender can be surprisingly motivating.
So when she tells him to kneel, he kneels. When she decides his energy has better uses, she redirects it. Garden first. Dinner next. Desire can wait.
Ladies, never underestimate the erotic power of being calmly certain.
You do not need to shout. You do not need to demand.
Sometimes all it takes is a raised eyebrow, a clear instruction, and a man who is very pleased to obey.
Locktober is around the corner… who is ready?
Brilliant- so true. Natural feminine authority expressed through calm and certainty is so powerful, (and erotic) 😉
Thank you Mistress.
An absolutely fabulous synopsis of the perfect FLR.
Slavedirt
Naturally born leaders understand the control of power in relationship. Directing his energy to her purposes is stimulating to both of them, it’s really a win-win for a high level LTR FLR. I have found that this leadership tendency shows up in the world as high achieving women. When the women I serve is engaged in meaningful pursuit as, surrendering becomes enlisting to her cause. So the idyllic image here is nice but the added spice of knowing my service is enabling a woman leader on a mission is more important than my libido.
Very good comic. Sometime a good drawing says more than words
Interesting. Today has been 22 days (although I probably shouldn’t be too focused on that). I’m with Milady in Brazil as her Boy Friday while she is at a conference.
A wonderful text (and message)
Thank you
This scenario taps into my every psychosexual FLR need, belief & desire.
Your accompanying Comments are most astute & correct Cat!
Thank You.
This lady understands her power and wields delightfully
I have meant to tell you for the longest time how impressed I have been with your artwork. EVERY display just suits your blog topic perfectly. Are they your own? If not, you’ve found the perfect source to compliment your writing….thank you so much.