Author: Cat Boulder

Meet Cat Boulder: a sassy blogger unapologetically championing Female Supremacy with a cheeky grin and a sharp pen. She's not just preaching women's strength and leadership – she's a live wire sparking a gender-role rebellion. For Cat, women are more than leaders; they're queens to be served joyfully by men, weaving bonds of strength and sisterhood in every aspect of life. Through her zesty prose, she empowers women to own their dominance while guiding men to embrace humble servitude with gusto. Forget traditional norms – Cat's writing ignites a feisty journey towards a world where women reign supreme, and relationships bask in a harmonious matriarchy. Follow Cat on Tumblr, X or Instagram

Navigating Early Hurdles in a Female-Led Relationship

A reader writes:

“My husband introduced me to the idea of a FLR; I was hesitant at first, but the more I read about it, the more excited I got. However, he seems to have gone off the boil and forgets about his submissive duties – even though it was his idea in the first place! What’s going on? Was it just a fantasy, and he can’t handle reality?”

Ah, my dear, welcome to the tantalising tightrope of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)! You’ve stepped into a role that promises both excitement and challenges, and it seems like you’re experiencing a bit of both. Let’s unwrap this conundrum together, shall we? Continue reading “Navigating Early Hurdles in a Female-Led Relationship”

Survey for submissive men – Share your insights and dreams

I welcome the submissive men in the audience to share their insights and dreams. Like previous surveys , this is your chance to lend your voice to the chorus that sings the praises of Female Leadership, a journey to map the terrains of empowerment and devotion where men like you play an indispensable role.

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Language for New Female Dominants

A reader writes:

“Can you address some good language for a Domme to use, that will remind her submissive of his place in the relationship?”

Darling, I’m thrilled to delve into the delicious art of language that puts your submissive right where he belongs—under your confident, commanding thumb. Here are a few delightful phrases to keep him perpetually aware of his place:

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Overcoming Guilt in a FLR

A letter from a reader:

“Dear Cat, my husband and I are exploring a Female-led dynamic. I’m having issues with the new balance of power; my husband will be busy doing housework and generally being at my beck and call, and I feel guilty about relaxing. In contrast, my husband seems to enjoy working whilst I chill on the sofa. How do overcome my guilt and relax into the role of Queen?”

Overcoming Guilt in a FLR

Darling Reader,

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CFNM: Clothed Female, Naked Male

Oh, darling, let’s dive into the delightfully daring world of CFNM, which stands for “Clothed Female, Naked Male.” It’s quite the titillating scenario, isn’t it? Imagine this: the woman remains fully dressed, exuding power and control, while the man is entirely bare, vulnerable, and open to her gaze and command.

CFNM is not just a kink but a profound exploration of power dynamics, where the clothed woman holds all the cards, orchestrating the scene with her dressed status symbolising her authority and dominance. This setting can be incredibly empowering for women, as it flips the traditional script of vulnerability and exposure. Here, she leads, she directs, and she revels in the power of her clothed presence while he submits to her watchful eyes.

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Edging and Chastity

A delightful question from a reader: “What is edging and how can it be used within a Female-led dynamic? Is it the same as edge play?”

Dear Inquisitive Mind, Navigating the waters of a Female-Led Relationship brings you to explore a myriad of practices, one of which you’ve stumbled upon is “edging.” This intriguing technique is not to be confused with “edge play,” which sails in entirely different waters, often involving riskier forms of BDSM activities.

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Kickstart your FLR: A guide for men trapped in a vanilla relationship

Oh, darlings, gather round. It’s time for a bit of heart-to-heart, a whisper of wisdom from yours truly, Cat Boulder.

Now, isn’t it just deliciously ironic that in a world where we goddesses reign supreme, it’s the men, yes the men, who are stepping up, craving to relinquish the reins to their queens. A whopping 80% of men initiate the FLR, so to create more female-led relationships, it would be great for more men to ignite the leader in the superior partners.

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The pedicure ritual

Ladies, gather around, for I’m about to unveil the delightful secrets of incorporating a pedicure ritual into your Female-Led Relationship (FLR) that will not only pamper you but also solidify your delicious dynamic. Imagine this: a man who not only worships the ground you walk on but also ensures your feet are perfectly cared for, all in the name of love and submission. Intrigued? Let’s dive in.

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Whispers and Secret Signals – The Art of Discreet Dominance

Ah, my daring darlings, it’s time to dip our toes into the deliciously discreet art of dominance when in public. These whispers and secret signals can also be used at home when the little ones are afoot or the extended family has cosily invaded our love nests. Continue reading “Whispers and Secret Signals – The Art of Discreet Dominance”

80% of FLR’s are initiated by men

Ah, my daring darlings, gather around as we delve into the titillating truths of Female-Led Relationship (FLR) dating habits. Our recent survey has peeled back the layers of this deliciously complex world and the revelations? Oh, they’re as intriguing as they are empowering.
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