Ah, my daring darlings, gather around as we delve into the titillating truths of Female-Led Relationship (FLR) dating habits. Our recent survey has peeled back the layers of this deliciously complex world and the revelations? Oh, they’re as intriguing as they are empowering.
First off, let’s talk authenticity. A whopping 57.9% of you lovely lot say being honest is the key. And why not? The foundation of any FLR worth its salt is truth. Without it, we’re just playing dress-up. So, to those on the hunt for a dynamic where she reigns supreme, remember: honesty isn’t just the best policy; it’s the only one.
Now, for a little nugget that made me chuckle—18.4% of you cheeky ones remind us to focus on her, not just the fantasies. And rightly so! We’re not just characters from your wildest dreams; we’re leaders, lovers, and everything in between. It’s about the connection, not just the kink.
Patience, my pets, is another virtue, with 15.8% of you nodding in agreement. These relationships, like the finest wines, need time to mature. Rush, and you risk the bouquet.
Ah, communication, only 5.3%? We need to nudge those numbers up! A successful FLR thrives on open, honest dialogue. And let’s not forget the 2.6% who find pleasure in service—your devotion is the melody to our symphony.
Diving deeper, 55% expressed their true desires to their partners to introduce the concept of an FLR. Bravo for baring your souls! It’s a dance of vulnerability and strength. And for those who stumbled upon it through conversation or a natural evolution—what serendipitous paths you’ve wandered!
80% of FLR’s are initiated by men
Interestingly, in most cases (79.49%), it was the men who initiated the FLR conversation. Gentlemen, your willingness to embrace and advocate for this dynamic is both commendable and crucial.
For the married folks in the FLR realm, 64.1% shared their interest later in the relationship. It’s a testament to the fact that it’s never too late to rewrite the script of your love story.
And how did these pioneers of passion meet? A resounding 76.9% say in real life—proof that the most extraordinary connections are often made in the most ordinary places.
So, to those yearning to chart a course toward a Female-led utopia, remember: it’s about honesty, focus, patience, communication, and finding joy in service. Embrace the journey, for the destination is a place where love and power dance in perfect harmony.
What advice would you give to those actively looking for a Female-led dynamic?
- To be honest – 57.9%
- Focus on her, not fantasies – 18.4%
- Be patient – 15.8%
- Communication – 5.3%
- Find pleasure in service – 2.6%
How did you introduce the concept of a FLR?
- Expressed true desires to my partner – 55%
- Sparked from conversation – 20%
- Natural evolution over time – 20%
- Role play 5%
Who initiated the conversation about FLR?
- Man 79.49%
- Woman 20.51%
For those married in a FLR, did you express your interest in a FLR from the start?
- Share an interest in FLR later – 64.1%
- Share an interest in FLR from the very start – 23.1%
- Share an interest in FLR after a few dates – 12.8%
For those married in a FLR – how did you meet?
- IRL (School, College, University, Work, through friends etc) – 76.9%
- Groups/meet-ups/munches – 10.3%
- Vanilla dating sites – 7.7%
- BDSM dating sites – 5.1%
This is truth and wisdom of the highest order. Thank you!
I appreciate this post and certainly can relate to it.
As an ardent supporter and proponent of female-led relationships, I have spent a considerable amount of time explaining (not ‘mansplaining’) the benefits and opportunities available to those women who choose to lead their romantic relationships with submissive men. As expected, quite a few women I have spoken to are not receptive of a relationship dynamic that is not primarily equal. That said, I have met some remarkable women who have appreciated my advocacy of feminine leadership and have found my views both enlightening and actionable.
I have just posted some thoughts on this topic – on my blog – which includes a verbatim response I received not too long ago from one such woman who came to appreciate and desire a more woman-centric and led relationship dynamic.
Link: https://submissivemale.blogspot.com/2024/03/femdom-diary-men-promoting-flr-to-women.html
Thank you for this opportunity to share my views, advocate for FLR and for all your efforts to bring FLRs into the light, Ms. Boulder.
Sincerely and deferentially,
– john
Is it allowed to obey if the daughter commands to her father, too?
Good afternoon and thank you for taking my question. Which outcome would you suggest is best for someone looking for an FLR? Finding a gf first, then introducing the lifestyle and see if she likes it? Or would it be better to look for a mate who has already been in the FLR lifestyle. Many dating sites just lead you to having a Dom, which can also be fine, but serving with love I think would be more important. Any thoughts?
Thank you.